Well, it's another year. What the hell happened to last year? It seems like only yesterday I was looking at the start of 2009 and wondering what the hell happened to 2008!
I don't know why it bothers me this much. I have a comfortable home, a wife that loves me, a Granddaughter that is the light of my life, a faithful dog, and....a job. Notice the hesitation? It's a job, nothing more. You see, I used to love what I did for a living. I got to travel to some great places, meet some interesting people, and really feel like I made a contribution to the company. Now, not so much...
It's frustrating to feel that I still have a lot to give and no place to give it. I'm forced to take orders from people with far less experience than mine, and there isn't anyone that I can talk to that really understands. I sit in my little corner, do what is expected of me, and all the time feeling like my light is fading day by day. I know, I know...I'm "lucky" to have a job in this economy, and I recognize that, but I have a need to feel valuable and I'm not feeling that. I have spent my whole adult life working to be the kind of person that treats people in the manner that I want to be treated, I've always been honest and respectful and kind. I have always thought that "work" wasn't a four-letter word, and I have listened to so many people complain about their jobs, but I didn't understand. I think I get it now, they weren't really unhappy with the job, but rather they were feeling some of what I'm going through now. But the question is, how do you recover lost dignity?
Another subject for another day I guess..But, I do hope everyone has a Safe and Happy New Year!
Monday, December 21, 2009
Wow! I completely forgot all about this blog. It's weird to look back and see what I wrote. I really lack the motivation to write every day, but I have to try to find a way to do it.
Winter is back, I still dislike it as much as ever. There are some things that I don't mind, like the how quiet it is after a new snow and the smell of the air. It's the cold I have a hard time with. I guess if you are born in the summer it imprints on you and anything else is just not natural. I have lived in the north most of my life and you would think that it would be something that could be looked forward to, but no. Oh I'm just going to come right out and say it. Winter sucks, period.
Heavy coats, cold cars, boots, dry air, the whole bundle. If I could hit the lotto I think I would buy and island and spend my winters there, but since that's not likely I'll just have to whine about it here.
I promise, I'll try to come back with something better to talk about soon.
Winter is back, I still dislike it as much as ever. There are some things that I don't mind, like the how quiet it is after a new snow and the smell of the air. It's the cold I have a hard time with. I guess if you are born in the summer it imprints on you and anything else is just not natural. I have lived in the north most of my life and you would think that it would be something that could be looked forward to, but no. Oh I'm just going to come right out and say it. Winter sucks, period.
Heavy coats, cold cars, boots, dry air, the whole bundle. If I could hit the lotto I think I would buy and island and spend my winters there, but since that's not likely I'll just have to whine about it here.
I promise, I'll try to come back with something better to talk about soon.
Friday, March 21, 2008
It's been a while since I've been here. I thought I should stop by and drop a post.
Things are pretty good, work is busy and the heart keeps on ticking so that's a good thing.
Winter drags on, way too long this year. I swear they get longer every year, but I guess it's just
because I don't seem to be able to tolerate them the way I used to.
I've been thinking quite a bit about my Dad lately. It's hard to believe that he has been gone 7 years already. It's funny, sometimes I'll struggle with a project or I will hear a joke and the first thing I want to do is call him, but then it hits me that it would be pretty hard to do. I still hear his laugh and he loved a good joke. His sense of humor wasn't always so easy to see, but if you knew where to look you could find it. I know my Mom misses him, she doesn't say much but it's pretty obvious that she thinks about him a lot. She is 88 now and her eyesite is starting to really fade. She has trouble with her leg and it hurts a bit, her hearing is poor but she has hearing aids and that seems to help. But, her mind is still very sharp and she stays active.
The time flies for sure. It seems like only yesterday she was standing at the ironing board whistling while she ironed. I always liked to hear that when I came in. The smell of freshly ironed clothes and her tunes is still one of my favorite memories. I think what I would like to do is start trying to bring back some of those memories while I can still remember them. That way my kids will have some kind of record of my life that they can share. I'm going to try to spend more time here laying down some of those old times.
See you soon.
Things are pretty good, work is busy and the heart keeps on ticking so that's a good thing.
Winter drags on, way too long this year. I swear they get longer every year, but I guess it's just
because I don't seem to be able to tolerate them the way I used to.
I've been thinking quite a bit about my Dad lately. It's hard to believe that he has been gone 7 years already. It's funny, sometimes I'll struggle with a project or I will hear a joke and the first thing I want to do is call him, but then it hits me that it would be pretty hard to do. I still hear his laugh and he loved a good joke. His sense of humor wasn't always so easy to see, but if you knew where to look you could find it. I know my Mom misses him, she doesn't say much but it's pretty obvious that she thinks about him a lot. She is 88 now and her eyesite is starting to really fade. She has trouble with her leg and it hurts a bit, her hearing is poor but she has hearing aids and that seems to help. But, her mind is still very sharp and she stays active.
The time flies for sure. It seems like only yesterday she was standing at the ironing board whistling while she ironed. I always liked to hear that when I came in. The smell of freshly ironed clothes and her tunes is still one of my favorite memories. I think what I would like to do is start trying to bring back some of those memories while I can still remember them. That way my kids will have some kind of record of my life that they can share. I'm going to try to spend more time here laying down some of those old times.
See you soon.
Friday, September 21, 2007
The fair was a blast! It's always a good time, but working with my friends makes it that much more fun. We spent a lot of time talking to people and baking in the heat that was pretty intense for the whole 12 days. Lots of noise and bad food and I loved every minute of it.
Before that I had to give a "Proffesional Development Workshop" at a conference in Buffalo. That wasn't as much fun as the fair, but it was a good experience for me. I am way out of my comfort zone doing that kind of thing, and I feel out of place. Everyone said it went really well so I guess I shouldn't be so worried about it.
The trip to Vegas is a month away, but that is something to look forward to. I always like to go out there, even if I do get really tired and it is a working trip. Usually by the time the week is over I am glad to get back home again. I spend a lot of time talking to people and that I like, my voice tends to give out after about 3 days though.
Before that I had to give a "Proffesional Development Workshop" at a conference in Buffalo. That wasn't as much fun as the fair, but it was a good experience for me. I am way out of my comfort zone doing that kind of thing, and I feel out of place. Everyone said it went really well so I guess I shouldn't be so worried about it.
The trip to Vegas is a month away, but that is something to look forward to. I always like to go out there, even if I do get really tired and it is a working trip. Usually by the time the week is over I am glad to get back home again. I spend a lot of time talking to people and that I like, my voice tends to give out after about 3 days though.
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Wow! Two years since I've posted!
Time flies doesn't it? I just thought I would stop in and try to see if I could find anything to write about. I want to attempt to work on the blog thing again, but I'm not sure how much I will be able to come up with. I'll give it a shot, maybe not every day but when I think I have something to say.
I'm looking forward to getting away for a while, it's not really a vacation since I will be working, but it's not my usual job so it will be a welcome change.
Time flies doesn't it? I just thought I would stop in and try to see if I could find anything to write about. I want to attempt to work on the blog thing again, but I'm not sure how much I will be able to come up with. I'll give it a shot, maybe not every day but when I think I have something to say.
I'm looking forward to getting away for a while, it's not really a vacation since I will be working, but it's not my usual job so it will be a welcome change.
Thursday, March 03, 2005
Hearts and Flowers
One year!
It's really hard to believe, but it's been one year today since the surgery and I couldn't feel better. Actually, except for a little one day glitch that took me to the emergency room for a short time with a strange heartbeat I haven't been sick even one day!
Time really does fly.
I will keep updating here when I have something to say, but it's not something I'm real good at. I have lots to say, but I find it uncomfortable to put my feelings out there most of the time. I am grateful for my time here, and when I am better able to express some of the things that are making me uneasy I'll be back to jot them down.
Until then, Thank's to all my friends and family for the support. Without I wouldn't be as healthy as I am today, and I say I appreciate it is an understatement at best..
Friday, August 27, 2004
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)